h1: " Family and Momcare and Insurance"

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 h 502: "Lifestyle And  Family connectivity" ,  

Family Connectivity 

Family is the backbone of a country. Family is the last unit of a greater society. It is a production unit of the population. Family and mother have  a great importance  in Indian lifestyle. She is the great teacher of our children. Mother can make our society more vibrant by producing good citizen. We can play greater role to fight the volatile  world and terrorism i.e. which those endangering the human race. Once Swami Vibekananda said to us " Give me a good mother , I will give you a good child ' . In Hindu lifestyle  mother is compare with the God and Goddess. She has been described more than heaven and mother land. Father is also described more than God. In a family, children should be respectful to their parent to make a greater family connectivity. Parent have  a big role into the family.                    h502:Father and Mother have a dimensional role into the family. Sometimes they are the parent, sometimes they  are the sister and brother.  Sometimes they are aunt and uncle etc. Increasing your acceptability you can play a grater role to make your family vibrant. Family connectivity  is the basis of  all happiness .

 If we  follow some rules we can increase our acceptability into our family in favor of family connectivity. I am  describing  it from my experience , observation  and studying the   Hindu way of life. These are as follows ;   (1)  You must follow your family as a sacred  unit. Keep it sacred. (2)   Do not degraded and disregard woman into the family .       God  will leave the house if  you do it  (Manu Samhita )   (3) Every women other than wife is a sister or mother to you . (4) Accept the mother role into the family. It is usual to  a father to  abandoned the children  but mother cannot  do it so easily . (5) Children is the future of your  " family and society " . You must take care of them .            h503 :  "Mom care and  Trainer  " ,  Children are the main factors of a family life. We should take care and trained them. Mother is the master of all teacher to a children.  Children follow their mom. Siting on the mom lap  children can learn easily.  She can  behave like a  trainer but not like  a teacher into the class room.                 h4: Lifestyle and  Training course ,  Do not open a class  at home ! The children should be trained in their way of life.  Only senior will work as an twister.  Please follow the points.        (1)  Give them knowledge about your society and  people around  him or her .(2) Acknowledge the presence of your neighbor in your life that children can follow .(3) How to behave with the parent. (4) Space and respect to others. (5) How to respect the old member of the family or society. (6)  Teach them how to respect woman.  (7) Teach them regarding different approach to the different sect of  people. Approach  differ from friend to  senior citizen .  (8)How to help the poor and deprived people.  (9) Have you visited to   an orphanage  with your children.(10) Have you taught the children not to use the word my and I .                              h504: "Family and Dinner ", (1) Specific space for dinner         (2) Specific time for dinner.  (3) Family member will eat together once a daily.(4) Dinner table would be a no technology Zone.     (5)  Do not use outdoor clothing into the dinning table.       (6) Wash your hand and before going to the dinning table.       h505:" Family and Practice  " , Your  family will inspire your children to do the following things. You should do the following items on daily basis except the fasting .     (1) Daily Bathin          (2) Daily "Exercise and Yoga                       (3) Daily "Meditation and Self control " for ten minutes with the children.               (4) One day or two days fasting  in a month  but not compulsory  for the children  or patients .             h506 : "  Budget  and Family  " , Without money a family cannot run a day . Within a limited resources we have to make a family budget . Such a  family  budget can make you stronger and confident . Credit card is snatching  your savings .  It is designed to inspire people to expend more than the necessity . But into the digital  world it has  great importance .You should be careful to expend money.  A  financially   strong family can run smoothly .  Projected  budget can help a family to do more things which are expected by the  family  member. The following  segregation can help you in making a family budget .     (1)  Children education Budget .     (2) Family members medical Budget.   (3)  Daily Marketing Budget .   (4) Transport Budget of the family. (5) Clothing  Budget of the family . (6) Car Budget .  (7) House maintenance Budget .                         (8) Childcare  Budget     (9) Budget for Savings.                 (10) A travelling budget with the whole family  once or twice a year.         h507: " Family and  Guide" ,  Parent  and  the other member of  the family will teach the children  into the ordinary course of life. They will inspire them to do the following thing as a lesson.

(1) Guide to read good book .

(2) Lit the light of heavenly qualities into the children .

 (3)  Guide them to rise into the early morning .

 (4) Taught them how to clean their own room and cloth .

 (5)  Declare a cleaning day  and all  together clean the house .

(6) Taught them  to use the time .

(7) Inspired them to go to the  the play ground to do exercise and to play game.

(8 ) Explore the sleeping qualities among your children .  (9) Most of the Children love animal . You can gift animal to  your children.  Responsibility will be embedded into your children .                         h508: " Family and Parents '  ,  Parents has to be dutiful . They will examine the following things to make the family strong.

(1) Can you say people can learn some qualities from your family ?

(2) Can you do something  for the others  which the children can follow ?

(3) Can you inspired the  children  to come to the dinner table  once in a specific time daily?

(4)  Are you meet the  neighbor?  

(5)  Are meet the relative  in their house ?

(6)  Are you make quarrel in front of the children ?        h509 : ' Family and Support Outside" , Mother and father have a different role into the family. Sometimes  they are the father or mother , sometimes they are the brother or sister and also have a others  multidimensional role . If you maintain this positive role it would be a psychotherapy to  the children . Mental development in regards to the acceptance will increase .  Support will come  from the outside to strengthen  our family.             h510 : "Mom and child care ", Children are the future of a family. Mother is the "center of affection and love?" . Every family  think that their child should be a successful one. It needs  care. "Love and affection" is necessary to develop their qualities.  God has designed her to deliver " love  and  affection " . Children feel secured in mom lap . "Love and affection " are the  "insurance and premium " of a family . Children learns what to do or not to do sitting into  the mother lap.  "Mental and physical " development is necessary. Family love make the children mentally developed. Indian old wise man has given a definition of a " wise human being " .i .e , " Attamavuta sarva vuteshu ya pasyati sa pandita " .  It is a Sanskrit word to define the wiseman as a man who will see him in others ,otherwise he is not a wise man.                        h511 " Family and Human Race ",  The world is     facing  terrorism  and Volatility . Mankind shocked and pained by seeing some attack on humanity.  Indian old wiseman described the mankind as a family. They said to us , " Basudeva kutuambakam".    It is a Sanskrit  word to define the  whole world as a family .  Family as a social unit serving the mankind .                    h512:" Home and Family " ,  "Home and family " follow each other. A home is needed for a family . A home that essayed the dream of a family . It may be a hut or palace like building  or may be in a big city or in a lonely place. Neat and clean  house  and heavenly  environment can increase the understanding of the family member Understanding  is the grid of a family .            h12 : "Family and  Breaking down " , Family is under attack. Whole world  including every society and culture is facing the same problem. People are losing the source  of  sacred   joy. So many causes are responsible for that .   h513 : "Family  and   Checklist " , You have to audit your family to determine whether you are into the wrong foot or not.  To strengthen your family  you must questioned yourself to get the positive answer .    (1) Are you know your neighbor ?  Have you any understanding with them ? Have you gone to their house ? Can you remember their name ?  (2) Have you invited your relative in your house ? Have you gone to the relative  house with your children ?(3) Have  you gone to the  social program  with your children ?(4)  Have you treated your family as a sacred unit .                   h12 " Family connectivity  and Emotional health", Family is the basis  of all  comfort and joy . Returning from the work place when we met the family it  healed  our " body and mind "  . It can be described as a tonic  of mental healing . All birds return to their home at the evening. We are as like as birds.  Returning at home we feel comfort where our family lives. We log in the source of joy.                                  "Love and  affection "  is the  " Insurance and Premium " of a family ". Understanding is the grid and "bare makes us ' physically and mentally "  sound  to fight the world . Father  is the  "whistle blower" of our life. Budget  and money "  is the strength of a family . Mom care is the wellness of our life .

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